Please Forgive Me

The first time I ever had an argument with Alan was when we were dating. As we were reconciling, he said, “I’m sorry – will you forgive me?” At first, I thought, well of course I forgive you – that kind of goes with the territory of I’m sorry. But he insisted to know if I forgave him, so of course I said yes.

I found out that it is really hard to stay mad at someone who asks for your forgiveness. On the other hand, it is MUCH easier to throw out a quick “I’m sorry” than it is to humbly ask someone to forgive you.

I think these four words have helped our marriage considerably over the years. When they are spoken in sincerity, the atmosphere changes. I feel like we are on the same team again. And that’s a very good thing.